Monday, April 28, 2014

Lifting women up!


Wilda has been invited to many meetings over the past several months by government organizations in Jakarta as well as with US consulate in Medan. She is receiving a lot of training about indonesian laws in dealing with prostitution, HIV and domestic violence. 

OH and Wilda might get a chance to be sent to America for training! Pray that she gets that opportunity!                                                                                                                                      

Wilda also meets with a large group of women living with HIV due to prostitution or other circumstances. They give the women information about how to have a healthy life with HIV. They come and lift these women up by sharing stories, education, dancing, playing games, being silly and giving love.



P3M House Latest:                                 

2 women (lets call them "L" and "E") and 2 children (boy is 3, girl is 2) are living in the P3M house. The two women are living with HIV. One of the women arrived a few days ago, "E". She is only 22 years old and just found out she is suffering from HIV, Typhoid and sifilis. She is not from Medan and P3M is trying to get her home to her family. "L" is the women who has been living in the house for a few months. She has just lost her husband due to HIV.  She was planning to go back home to her family so that she could have time to mourn her husbands death but instead has decided to stay for "E". "L" has found it in her sweet heart to stay and help P3M take care of her. 

Amazing fighting women! 

Side note: P3M house will be moving locations in the near future

Pray for these ladies, kids and Wilda!
GO P3M and GO WILDA (she is a bad ass!)


Tuesday, January 7, 2014

New to P3M & Money Raised!

Thank you so much to Everyone who Donated to help P3M raise money for their rent next year! We raised $1,000

We did it thanks to you! Now these woman and more to come can have a safe place to recover from illness or escape from the life of prostitution. You have made a huge difference in their lives.

Latest! Ani has recently come to P3M looking for a place to recover and start new. She has at 39 years decided to give up her life in sex work. P3M is so proud of her and will do all they can to help her start her new life.


Friday, October 18, 2013

Carpet Making?

    Lets make some carpets!                                   

P3m and ladies are learning to make Iranian carpets. Through this rare skill we hope this will be a great way for p3m and the women to help them make their own living. When a carpet is finished in a few months the woman could make up to $1000. P3m was given this opportunity through our friends Ahmad and Samy who are starting a new carpet making business. They heard about P3m and wanted to share this opportunity to those less fortunate, they are awesome. Thank God for them :) 

Today p3m had their first training session!! Wish them luck for the future sessions to come!



  Support P3M                    

If you would like to Donate to p3m please click on the link below. The money we are rasing right now is for the rent of the house where 3 women and one child live right now, p3m office and where they are getting this training that could help them earn their own living and start a new life.  Thanks to all who support p3m we love you!!!

http://www.indiegogo.com/projects/rent-for-p3m-house/x/814508

Thursday, October 17, 2013

P3M House & Other news

   Whats going on in the P3M house?                    

It is a full house over at the P3M house :) So far 4 women and one child, including Wilda the cofounder of P3M is living there. Also the P3M staff has moved its office into the house, keeping everything together and connected. 


  • Two of the women their are living with HIV that contracted from their late husbands. As they were showing signs of illness they had to let their families know. One family said come back when you don't look sick and the other said they will not except her at all. Thank God they found Medan Plus, who helps those living with HIV, that led them to P3M. A safe place for them to live now. One of the women also brought with her her Child Jeni, she is 6 years old healthy and full of life! That is Jeni in the picture above with Rani P3M staff at the P3M house/office.
  • Meri has also moved in to the P3M house. If you remember, She came out of prostitution at the age of 64 when she met Wilda/P3M who helped her get out, she came to live with Wilda before they moved into the P3M house. Wilda and Meri have a very special bond, Wilda says Meri is like her second mother and that she won't live anywhere without her. 


They have all created this lovely community together having weekly meetings on who takes care of what in the house and daily chores. They also came up with the idea to sell clothes and cigarettes & snacks in the front yard to workers. They are very happy and grateful to be where they are. It is very sweet and heartwarming.


Please Help Support P3M with providing these women and hopefully more with a place to live. Check out this campaign for raising money. Every bit counts! Thank you so much for loving these people & P3M 

http://www.indiegogo.com/projects/rent-for-p3m-house/x/814508

   Outside of the House:                                          


P3M team is working hard trying to raise awareness in their community (Medan) about HIV/STDs, how to protect ones self as well as talking with the women giving them an option to leave. 
This week with P3M:
  • HIV/STD testing in the Hotels/Brothels
  • P3M staff always hard at paper work and going late passing out condoms and information about HIV/STDs and the risks of prostitution. Rani, Joseph and Musa what a great team!! 

Thanks for all the support! And GO P3M!!!

And one more thing:                                  

A huge thanks for those back home in America working their butts off to raise support there! They have been setting up parties and art shows all for P3M, wow! Thank you Rachel Pryor and Jo Whitman you are badass and your efforts are helping to change lives! And thank you to all that pray and contribute to P3M!


Wednesday, September 11, 2013

Police raid & baby on the way


   6 Woman Arrested!                    

6 woman were arrested on August 27th. The police raided a massage parlor the girls worked at.  Although only catching one in the act of prostitution everyone one still had to go with the police, except the men. The girls called Wilda / P3M immediately for help. They have been trying to do everything in their power to help these woman.

The police wanted 20 million rp. for their release but they were able to talk them down to 15 million rp. ($1,500). The girls had to borrow from one of the mangers of the massage parlor.  But they are now stuck in more debt then before, guess how they will have to pay it off? Can't we see this cycle these woman keep trapped in and have no other choice but stay in prostitution. 

Reason for the raid was also not out of concern for the woman or the law but for money instead. The owners of the massage parlor don't pay the monthly "tax" to the police to turn a blind eye so instead the police raid every 6 months. Getting their money either way, the woman paying the most in the end. Though the woman have practiced prostitution they were illegally arrested according to Indonesian law and P3M is trying to help them fight it. They need our support, understanding and prayers.

Needs: If anyone is touched by their story and wants to donate money to help them pay off their debt so they don't have to do it another way. Also anyone that knows the Indonesian law very well or knows of or is a lawyer would be great help.


    Thanks to all who have been supporting P3M, ever bit counts!  

Love yall and Way to go P3M TEAM!!!!! Support them!!!     


     Please contact this page or Wilda directly            

Wilda R.Wakkary
Koordinator Perempuan Peduli Pedila Medan ( P3M )
Wilda Hp. 081807779147 / 082161736449

Alamat Sekretariat Jln. Sei Siguti No.30 
Kel Sei Sikambing D, Kec Medan Petisah
Kode Pos 20119
Telp : 061-4569647
email : p3m_21 @
yahoo.com




Saturday, August 17, 2013

Free Hair cuts anyone?


Free haircuts                       

P3M is starting a new service for the ladies at the hotels which is cutting their hair for free. Today P3M went to hotels in the Sambu area. This is something P3M wants to start doing for many of the girls in many different hotels. P3M's stylist today consisted of 3 people Wilda, the founder of P3M, Musa, on the P3M team and Jenny a volunteer for P3M. They did a great job and I am sure the woman walked away feeling beautiful and loved!


Volunteer opportunity: 
If you can cut hair and want to offer your services to these woman contact Wilda or this page! Show off your skills and bring happiness to these woman. Lets show them we care :)

Other News                        


P3M has given the woman in the picture money to help her start a small business selling breakfast from her house. She is 29 years old, has 5 children and one more on the way. Her husband became very ill when she was 3 months pregnant. Due to him being sick and unable to work she began prostituting herself in order to provide for her family.  She is 8 months pregnant now and P3M is trying to help her stay out of prostitution through this business at her house.

If this story has touched you please donate to her cause and help her stay out of prostitution so she might care for her family and herself. 

Thank you to all who are helping and praying!


Want to Volunteer or Donate please contact                       

This page or...




Wilda R.Wakkary
Koordinator Perempuan Peduli Pedila Medan ( P3M )

Wilda Hp: 081807779147 / 082161736449
Alamat: Sekretariat Jln. Sei Siguti No.30
Kel Sei Sikambing D, Kec Medan Petisah 
Kode Pos 20119
Telp : 061-4569647
email : p3m_21 @yahoo.com

Love you guys!







Friday, August 16, 2013

Gardening with P3M

 Gardening                             

Yesterday Wilda (P3M founder) and women from the hotels bought and planted flowers in the P3M house. 

Now the P3M house looks even more welcoming and beautiful!

 Other news                             

Another woman has come out of prostitution due to her being 8 months pregnant. P3M is helping her with going to the doctor, bills and helping her with money to start a small business outside her house selling breakfast. 

Please pray that business goes well and of course that her and her baby are healthy.


Thank you to all who have donated it is going to many great things! 

    We love you guys!